Frequently Asked Questions
Some of the questions you may have are already covered here on this page.
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To start with, your Home Kit will take some time to arrive in the mail after your purchase. (It will take longer if you are located outside of North America.)
Also, keep in mind that this is a 3-step method and that you have to complete Step #1 and Step #2 before you are ready to start trying to conceive, which is final Step #3.
Testing your pH level (Step #1) will only take 5 days once you have received your Home Kit in the mail, although you need to be extra sure that your period won’t start on any of those 5 days you will be testing / completing step #1.
Adjusting your pH level (Step #2) depends on what your pH level is and how far off it is (or not) from where it needs to be. Therefore, it can take anywhere from 0 to 12 weeks. It varies from one woman to another.
Important to note that the Crucial Dates to conceive the desired gender (which are part of final step #3 – conception) are not sent to you right away or automatically. We will make sure that you have completed the first 2 steps successfully before you claim access to your 1st set of Crucial Dates. It does not have to be consecutive months either, you can skip a month (or more) if you want/need to. It’s very flexible – you decide when you want to receive a set of Crucial Dates and use them to attempt conception.
Joining and getting your Home Kit early is preferable and recommended. It will allow you to browse the Training Center and to familiarize yourself with the 3-step method before you actually start using it.
We have 3 plans to choose from (Bronze, Silver or Gold). You can join anytime – regardless of which plan you choose.
Life happens! If you need to put your plan on hold anytime after your purchase, we’ll be happy to do that for you until you are ready to start (or resume) using the 3-step method.
Long story short – you can join anytime. The sooner the better for those of you who like to plan ahead and prepare a long time in advance.
P.S. The 3-step method has a very high success rate. However in regards to the outcome, your top priority has to be the gender of the baby over the specific month on which it was conceived. Therefore, if you are in a hurry to get pregnant and absolutely want/need to conceive this month or next, the Home Kit (this gender selection method) is not for you, unfortunately.
Please rest assured that our method has nothing to do with astrology, Chinese calendar or anything else you have ever heard of or read about. Our 3-step method is unique and has nothing to do with the “timing of intercourse with ovulation” method (or any other methods for that matter).
We have been assisting several thousands of couples from all over the world since 1996 and it has been validated beyond doubt (from close follow-up and data compiling) that there are very specific and limited days (‘Crucial Dates’) on which a woman will successfully conceive the gender of her choice at a very high level of success, as long as her body’s pH level is in the optimal zone required to succeed.
Our famous ‘Crucial Dates’ to conceive a specific gender are not based on any of your personal information or menstrual cycle. You don’t need to pinpoint the exact day of your ovulation either. (However, if you find that the Crucial Dates are not in line with your fertile window, we will provide you with a tool to rectify that.)
From there, all you have to do is make sure that your pH level is in the optimal zone required (we provide you with everything you need), have intercourse on the Crucial Dates each month and protect yourself from conception for the remaining days of the month until you get pregnant with the desired gender.
The mother’s pH level must be in the appropriate range for as long as she is trying to conceive and up until she gets pregnant. This is very important and counts for 50% of your success with this method. Please do not underestimate the impact it has on your success!
We know that the outcome of using a gender selection method is important to you. If you are serious about selecting your baby’s gender but do not wish to use the traditional (invasive and costly) gender selection methods used in medical clinics, we highly suggest that you use and trust our method. We can assure you that you will be glad that you did…
Then you’ll be able, as a living proof, to join all the other successful families and to spread the word about this life changing and affordable baby gender selection home kit.
This is a very good question and one that our dedicated customer care team receives frequently.
NO – This method is not guaranteed to work for you with 100% success rate. If you’re on this page, we believe you’re more conscious than that.
If you ever run into any gender selection method or technique that promises you 100% guaranteed results, they are not being honest with you.
However, if you have strong desire to select the gender of your baby naturally and if you’re ready to take matters into your own hands and to do everything in your power to drastically increase the odds in your favor, this is exactly what our Home Kit will do for you.
It can work for you regardless of your age, having a regular cycle or not, your family history or how many kids you have and their gender.
Your own success with this method relies on the use that you will make of the 3 steps involved, clear step-by-step instructions provided and how committed you are to make it work for you and your family.
If you do follow the 3 steps exactly as instructed (it’s simple but it requires dedication and commitment), then your chances of conceiving the desired gender will increase drastically.
Here are 4 reasons why our method would NOT work for you:
1. You’re skeptical – you think this is ‘too good to be true’ and you leave this website.
2. Your pH level is not in the optimal zone required at the time of conception.
3. You conceive outside of the specific Crucial Dates we provide you with.
4. Your husband/partner is unable to conceive a specific gender because his sperm does not contain any X (or Y) chromosome (or not enough / too weak). This is a very rare condition.
Reasons 1, 2 and 3 above are 100% within your control. We tell you exactly what to do, and when to do it.
Don’t settle for 50% chance of getting the gender you want and don’t let ‘Mother Nature’ decide for you. Take matters into your own hands and get your Home Kit today!
Are you currently on birth control or having an intrauterine contraceptive device (IUD)?
We often get asked if it’s possible to join and get your Home Kit early while still using birth control methods.
The answer is yes, even if you are currently on birth control (of any type), you can still (and should) join and get started as it will not interfere with the accuracy of your pH test results, nor with the pH level’s adjustment process.
The minimum requirement is to test your pH level once a month for 5 consecutive days, right before your Crucial Dates start.
However, we recommend to test your pH level at least twice a month to keep track and to make sure that it is being maintained at the level it has to be. It allows you to adjust (or re-adjust) it, if need be.
It is important to test your pH level every month until pregnancy is achieved.
* Important Fact to Know About pH Level Test Strips:
There are many different types and brands available on the market and they all differ significantly in their quality, accuracy and effectiveness.
Consequently, the results and readings that you will get from using various brands will be different.
The high-grade quality pH level test strips (and matching color chart) included in our gender selection Home Kit have the highest accuracy level on the market.
The only way to ensure accurate pH testing along with reliable & consistent readings is to strictly use the gender selection pH test strips that we provide you with. This is very important.
The optimal pH level required to conceive the desired gender, which counts for 50% of your success with this method, is only available to active members who are following the 3-step gender selection method. This crucial piece of information is shared around week #6 in the program, on average. It varies slightly from one woman to another, based on a few different factors.
Yes, it is safe to adjust and maintain your pH level within the range required to conceive the desired gender.
For your information, the typical American diet, which is way too high in acid-producing animal products (like meat, eggs and dairy) and far too low in alkaline-producing foods (like fresh vegetables) results in most people having a very acidic pH level, throughout their entire life.
Additionally, remember that this pH level adjustment process is only temporary and that your body’s pH will return to its natural level (on its own) shortly after you’ll stop using our pH adjustment tools.
Please rest assured that adjusting your pH level for a short period of time will not have a negative impact on your overall health.
The Crucial Dates to conceive the desired gender are part of final step #3 of the program. They will be provided to you after you have completed the first 2 steps of the 3-step method successfully.
You have to make sure that you have reached the optimal pH level required to conceive the desired gender before claiming access to the next available set of monthly Crucial Dates.
Please note that the Crucial Dates and times are different from one month to the other. They change from one year to another as well.
Couples often wonder how many times they should have intercourse on the Crucial Dates.
You can have intercourse as many times as you wish starting on the first Crucial Date and all the way through the last Crucial Date provided (within the specific times given).
Within that time frame (over the course of those 4 days), we recommend a total of at least 2 or 3 times.
Trying to conceive at least once on each one of those 4 Crucial Dates is ideal and preferable in order to increase your chances of getting pregnant.
If the Crucial Dates to conceive the desired gender line-up with your period, it simply means that your menstrual cycle is not favorable for the conception of that particular gender. One more reason to use our method and avoid the conception of the opposite gender than the one you desire.
The Crucial Dates gradually change from one month to another and your fertile window / ovulation will eventually line-up with the Crucial Dates. Giving birth to the gender you want should be well worth the wait.
However, please note that if you’re anxious to get pregnant and you don’t want to wait for that natural timing to occur, simply use our optional ‘Timing Kit’ to line-up your fertile window (ovulation) with the Crucial Dates sooner. Many women have used it over the last 22 years with a lot of success.
You will find all the information you need about the ‘Timing Kit’ inside our private members’ area after you join.
The lifespan of sperm in a woman’s body is largely dependent on cervical fluid since it provides the sperm with the nutrients they need to survive during their journey to the ovum. The typical lifespan of sperm in a woman’s body while fertile cervical fluid is present is three days, but in the right conditions sperm can even live up to five days. However, it is important to note that sperm do not typically survive for five days, even in fertile cervical fluid. A life span of 1 to 3 days is much more typical.
Based on that theory, our customer care team often receives this question:
“Since there are 4 Crucial Dates each month to conceive the desired gender, what if I get pregnant on the last and 4th date you have provided me with? Would I still get pregnant with the desired gender?”
Excellent question! And the answer is yes, since the lifespan of sperm has already been taken into consideration when we provided you with the Crucial Dates. Consequently, you can have intercourse as many times as you wish, starting on the 1st Crucial Date provided and all the way through the very last and 4th Crucial Date inclusively, within the specific times given.
Trust the method, follow the 3 steps exactly as instructed and the outcome will amaze you…
Having an irregular cycle is not a problem and it will not prevent you from conceiving the gender of your choice using our proven method and Home Kit. A lot of women with irregular cycles have succeeded with our method since 1996. Don’t let this prevent you from joining.
We even have a great tool that you can use to transform your irregular cycle into a regular cycle. Consequently, your cycle will be perfectly in-line with the Crucial Dates to conceive the desired gender!
More information is provided inside our private members’ area after you join.
We are well aware of Dr. Landrum Shettles ‘timing’ theory pretending that:
“The closer to ovulation you have intercourse, the better the chances to conceive a baby boy and that for a baby girl it is best to conceive a few days prior to ovulation.”
However, an alarming (very large) number of families have used that technique for decades and failed repeatedly. We receive emails every month from parents who tell us that unfortunately, they are one of them.
From our vast experience, proven track records and with the outstanding success rate we’ve had since 1996, we can assure you that our method and Home Kit is a lot more accurate and reliable.
The perfect timing between your fertile window (ovulation) and our ‘Crucial Dates’ to conceive the desired gender is something to be very excited about! Forget about Dr. Shettles and have intercourse on the Crucial Dates you were given (as long as your pH level is in the optimal pH zone required).
Have faith in our proven method, follow the 3 simple steps exactly as instructed and be one of our Success Stories!
Women with PCOS wonder if they can get a Home Kit and use the 3-step method, regardless of their condition.
Over the past 2 decades, a lot of women with PCOS were successful at conceiving the gender of their choice by using the 3-step gender selection method.
PCOS, as you are aware, may have an impact on your ability to conceive and/or how long it will take to become pregnant. But it does not interfere with gender selection.
Same applies to any other medical condition.
Couples with fertility issues wonder if our method can help increase fertility.
As accurate as our gender selection method is, it has no positive (or negative) influence over fertility issues, or the ability to conceive and get pregnant.
However, please note that since 1996, a lot of couples with fertility issues have succeeded at conceiving the gender of their choice by using our Home Kit along with their infertility treatment plan.
For your information, taking fertility medications (like Clomid for example) will not interfere with our proven method. As a matter of fact, many of our members even used their fertility drug to line-up their ovulation with the Crucial Dates to conceive the desired gender.
